Wisdom lies in
burying the hatchet and living in peace with one’s own inner self as well as in
peace with others in the world since peace and contentment are the real
measures of success in life
In my previous
column I wrote about mediocrity and sycophancy that have been pervasively
infiltrating into every segment of our society of late and not only
deteriorating our performance and progress but also transgressing upon the well
deserved due of the meritorious lot. In this column I would be dwelling upon yet
another ill that has been plaguing our society for long and that is the toxic
and strained work culture at our offices. Most of our offices are unfortunately
plagued by infighting, leg-pulling, rivalry, unhealthy competition,
back-biting, lobbyism, jealousy, hatred and intolerance. Again sycophancy and
mediocrity play a major role in encouraging this kind of an ambience in our
offices and leading to a toxic work culture because mediocre and worthless
people resort to sycophancy and flattery to rise in their career and try to
pull the meritorious people down through dubious means and debauchery. These
are the people who vitiate an amiable atmosphere for their own personal selfish
ends and disrupt the peace and amity at a work place simply because they want
to be themselves close to the corridors of power and to the people at the helm
of affairs so that they can exercise their writ and push the deserving people
down through their cheap, mean and deceitful tactics.
Toxic work
culture is a disease that makes the entire system sick, stagnant and
unproductive. It puts the entire work machinery to recline and rest with very
little activity plausible. In order to cure this disease and eradicate it from
its roots we need to understand its causative factors, modes, means and
mechanisms of sustenance, its ill consequences, preventive strategies besides
policies and procedures to overcome the same. Toxic work culture stems from the
fact that in work environs where there is disillusionment, distress and
dissatisfaction among employees as a result of total disregard for merit and
hardwork, such systems turn into breeding grounds for a toxic atmosphere. This
distress and dissatisfaction in turn emanates from the frequent episodes of
discrimination and disrespect that the employees experience for not resorting
to sycophancy or for occasionally or frequently expressing dissent on genuine
issues of concern. A system that rewards sycophants and yes-men irrespective of
their calibre, contribution and output towards the growth of the institution
and reprimands the sincere and hard-working lot for raising objections and
questioning actions and decisions in the interest of the institution ultimately
turns into a hotbed of toxic culture and rivalry.
We must always
remember that anything that costs us the peace of our mind is too expensive and
worthless to be retained and nourished. We need to let go and live happily in
order to stay sane in toxic workplaces because such cultures have a strong
potential to drive you crazy and leave you depressed or deprived of your inner
peace. Poor communication, unsupportive leadership, lack of clarity about
organizational goals, no reward or appreciation for good work, negative
outlooks and lack of balance between personal and work relationships are the
hallmarks of a toxic work culture. When gossiping, incivility,
rumour-mongering, misleading information, character assassination and false
propaganda is allowed, encouraged or tolerated in an institution, one can
easily presume that it is heading towards a toxic work culture. Discrimination
and injustice on various grounds, taboos and vilification against expressing
your opinion freely, unhealthy or dysfunctional competition, shoulder patting
and promotion of sycophancy and chicanery, giving space to social cliques and
office politics, aggressive or bullying behavior are other prominent signs of a
toxic work culture.
Causes of
toxic work culture also include authoritarian management style, inconsistent or
unpredictable supervision, acceptance of disrespectful behavior, lack of
conflict resolution process, individual staff members with personal insecurity,
fear of transfer or change in position, no single yardstick for promotions and
incentives or even for dealing with day-to-day administrative case files. Toxic
work cultures promote people over performance, mediocrity over meritocracy, personal
relationships over work ethics, punishment over persuasion and proper guidance,
castigation over encouragement, weaknesses over strengths, negatives over
positives, secrecy over transparency, irresponsibility over accountability,
lobbyism over equity, coteries over collegial environment, absenteeism over
punctuality, groupism over team-work, closets over freedom, silence over
expression and lot more. Constructive criticism is a far-fetched dream in a
toxic work culture as the bosses of such cultures are used to hear only a “yes”
from their subordinates and there is absolute no space for a “no” or an “if” or
a “but”. Word “why” does not even exist in the dictionary of such institutions
as well as their administrators. No matter where the institution is heading
towards, one is not allowed to open his mouth in such cultures.
Employees of a
toxic work culture do not live a healthy, happy and peaceful life themselves and
do not let others live peacefully too. They spend all their time pulling each
other’s legs and pushing each other towards darkness and downfall through cheap
and mean tactics, politicking, character assassination and false propaganda.
They neither progress themselves nor allow others to progress as a result of
which entire work, career as well as institution gets paralyzed and suffers
from sickness. In spite of the fact that a toxic culture does not benefit
anybody, employees of such a culture continue with their negative traits of
expressing anger, harbouring intense jealousy deep within, nurturing grouse and
hatred against each other, feeling insecure and inferior upon seeing others
achieve and move ahead in life, contributing nothing for their individual or
institutional development, losing all their precious time brooding and throwing
insults over those who progress by the sheer dint of their hardwork, dedication
and commitment towards their work. Such employees themselves become toxic and
full of negativity to the extent that their thoughts, behavior, actions and
decisions clearly reflect their negativity and vicious nature. As a result of
continuous infighting and squabbling among employees such departments or institutions
fail to make a mark for themselves, earn a bad reputation, fail to achieve
anything substantial and remarkable, get relegated to the backburner and
ultimately turn sick and unproductive, even resulting into closure of such
departments or offices at times.
When there is
a relationship of mutual respect, love, trust and friendship among employees of
an institution and the people don’t feel insecure or threatened by each other,
then only it becomes possible to concentrate on work and progress of that
individual as well as that of the institution. In absence of these positive social
elements it is hard to meet the targets and achieve milestones because all of
the time, energies, thinking and activities of the employees get concentrated
on damaging each other’s reputation, creating hurdles in their work and
progress, spreading lies and misinformation, taking revenge, seeking derogation
and defamation of their rivals, bypassing their merit and seniority in
promotions, pleasing higher authorities and spilling venom against each other.
Nobody gains anything out of all such sadistic maneuvers and medieval mindset even
though temporarily some of the yes-men and mediocre people might gain
promotions and positions in their career but in the long run they fail to carve
a niche for themselves and leave a remarkable legacy back in the society. At the
time of retirement when they look behind there is only devastation and
destruction in the hindsight and nobody in the foresight to wholeheartedly
welcome them and appreciate their work. They do repent but it is too late by
then. Therefore wisdom lies in introspection and taking corrective measures at
an appropriate time while one is in active service.
Having policies and procedures in place that
ensure equitable growth and progress of employees purely on the basis of their
merit and performance and leaving absolutely no scope for shortcuts and
personal considerations in gaining promotions and positions can retrieve a
department or an institution from the clutches of toxic work culture to a very
large extent. Disruptive behavior and toxic culture emanates from the feeling
that you can bypass your seniors and more meritorious colleagues and achieve
success by resorting to cheap tactics of defamation and derogation and by
keeping your bosses happy through sycophancy, back-biting, chicanery and
gratification. “United we stand and divided we fall” is too old a maxim yet so
relevant and valid even today. Unity, amity, brotherhood, mutual acceptance and
tolerance are the key to success of any institution and the opposite of these
leads the individual as well as the institution towards a certain doom, not
only affecting his own life and career but the peace and happiness of his
family members too as well as the peace and progress of his rivals. Wisdom lies
in burying the hatchet and living in peace with one’s own inner self as well as
in peace with others in the world. Peace and contentment are the real measures
of success in life.
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